Monday After (Tuesday edition)

“Jesus let people be consumers, but wanted them to become followers.”

–Andy Stanley

This is week two in the “Trading Up” series at North Point Community Church.

Salvation is free; it cost you nothing.

Following Chris will eventually cost you something.

Jesus is about to ask his disciples and followers to make the biggest decision of their life. He asks them who people say he is and who they thing he is. I don’t think this was a trick question. I think Jesus just wanted them to make a decision as to which side they were on without revealing what that was going to mean to them.

At this point, Jesus asks his disciples and the crowd to stop being followers and become consumers: “If anyone wants to be My follow, he must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow Me” (8:34).

But Andy pointed out that this isn’t an all or nothing deal. You can be a follower, then a consumer, and again a follower. It’s a cycle that happens and it’s OK.

Jesus was telling those around him: “If you want to follow Me, sometimes you’ll have to say no to you.” Saying “no” to anyone, especially yourself, is hard to do.

“…Take up his cross…” To those in the crowd, this only represented death. I can only imagine the murmurs in the crowd: “Did he say we have to die if we follow him?”

The disciples had it easy up to this point. They had been with a popular teacher who could perform miracles, and they had gotten to be involved in many of those. They had seen him heel blind people and bring people back to life. They were following Him, but they hadn’t been asked to do anything that would risk their lives.

“For whoever wants to save his life will lose it…” (8:35a). Everyone dies. Everyone who devotes their life to staying healthy dies. Everyone who tries to latest miracle drug dies. Everyone. “…but whoever loses his life because of Me and the gospel will save it” (8:35b). But for those who are willing to sacrifice it all will live. (Hint: this isn’t a physical life.)

What Jesus is referring to here is our soul.

“What good is it for you to gain the whole world, yet forfeit your soul?” (8:36 TNIV)

“For what will a man give in exchange for his soul?” (8:37 NASB)

We’re going to lose everything on this side of death the moment we die. We can make the choice to just follow Jesus and hang onto everything we have here and lose it all in the end, or we can get rid of those things we’ll lose anyway, and consume the Thing we won’t lose in the end.

The answer to the question in verse 37 is “Everything.” Is it worth clinging to the things we’ll lose anyway in exchange for our soul?

My soul > My things

What if that was how we lived our lives?

Jesus warns us what will happen if we pick our things instead of Him: “For whoever is ashamed of Me and of My words in this adulterous and sinful generation, the Son of Man will also be ashamed of him when He comes in the glory of His Father with the holy angels” (8:38).

If we cling to the things we can’t keep, we lose the thing that puts us in a far greater story.

We know what we gain if we decide to follow Christ; it will cost something, maybe everything. But refusing to follow Christ, that will cost your soul.

You either die of something or you die for something. Which will you choose?

I know how I want to answer, but I don’t know if it’s the honest answer right now. I don’t know that I’m willing to be a true consumer yet.

Sunday Summary: Week 3 of FinishYear

1. Complete 500 miles by running/walking/elliptical this year.

I began running again last week and it was amazing. I don’t think I’ve ever enjoyed a run more than those two runs. I added another 8.57 miles this week between the elliptical, treadmill, and the road. Still have to take it easy for a couple more weeks with the running to really make sure my shin is healed.

3. Complete two more 5ks, my first 10k, and my first half marathon this year.

The Nashville half-marathon is back on the radar, but still just a small blip out on the edge of the screen. I kind of want to do the Disney half-marathon in the fall if I can’t do the one in Nashville.

4. Read 15 books.

Completed two more books this week. The third book of “The Hunger Games” series, and “The Fault in Our Stars”. I’m starting “Rework” tonight.

5. Hand-write all of Proverbs.

I’m about halfway through Proverbs 7 and haven’t missed a day yet. There are some odd verses in Proverbs.

7. Become debt free.

Took my parents to see Dave Ramsey’s “Total Money Makeover LIVE” yesterday. And I won a free Financial Peace University kit, but I’ve already gone through FPU. My parents are going to take it home with them. I also paid off the third-to-last loan on Saturday morning, leaving me with just two more loans. I ran some numbers for my debt snowball the other night and it looks like I’ll be able to finish off all my loans in May instead of November, which is incredible. I can’t wait to be debt free this year!

Sunday Summary: Week 2 of FinishYear

This week’s summary is short since some of my goals are long-term and aren’t going to get updated as regularly.

1. Complete 500 miles by running/walking/elliptical this year.

I completed 3.19 miles this week on the elliptical. I’m supposed to be averaging a little over 9 miles a week. Definitely going to have to make up mileage once I can start running again. I wish I could track my mileage in spin class, but my distance is just an arbitrary guess based on exertion and how far I’ve seen others in the class estimating.

4. Read 15 books.

This week I’ve finished “The Hunger Games” and “Catching Fire”. Amazing books and I definitely recommend them. I’m starting the third/final one tonight. (Get the trilogy on Amazon for $31. [affiliate link]) I started “Catching Fire” on Friday night and finished this afternoon. I don’t think I’ve done that much reading in one weekend in a really long time. I’m really enjoying this goal since I used to read like crazy and then slowed way down. If you have any book recommendations in any category post them in the comments.

5. Hand-write all of Proverbs.

Still going strong on this one. I forgot my Moleskine notebook this weekend and had to use a notepad at the Holiday Inn.

7. Become debt free.

I’ll be paying off the third-to-last student loan this week. In fact, I’ll be making the payment the day I’m going to see Dave Ramsey live at “Total Money Makeover” event in Atlanta. It’s great timing. I ran some numbers again this week for my debt snowball. One projection has me finishing in November. Another has me finishing as soon as August. If I can pick up several more freelance gigs doing ProPresenter training at churches between now and then I may be able to move that up as far as June or July, or sooner. I can’t wait to cross this goal off my list. And to never have to put it back on a list.

 

Click here to find out more about “Finish Year”, what it means, and what the rest of my goals for 2012 are.

The Monday After

Today I’m going to start a semi-regular (or semi-infrequent) Monday post about Sunday’s message at church.


 This week at North Point Andy Stanley kicked off the new year with a message called “This One Thing.” This message is all about figuring out what the thing you want to do this year is. It can be starting something new, or ending something negative. If you want to start a business or start a charity, begin that process this year. If you need to stop a negative habit in your life, do that this year.

Some of his other examples were:

A habit you must break.
A goal you must accomplish.
A project you must finish.
A relationship you must restore.
A relationship you must end.
A debt you must retire.

Andy focused his message on Nehemiah, who was a slave but made a huge difference in Israel’s history because he had one thing he wanted to accomplish and didn’t care about what others were saying. Nehemiah’s story is that he asked King Artaxerxes for a lot of time off from being a slave to go to Jerusalem and help them. The people of Israel were being exploited by powerful people in the area; they also had no wall to protect them from attacks.

Nehemiah got permission to go Jerusalem and King Artaxerxes even gave him a lot of supplies and safe passage to Jerusalem.

Once he was there he began work to rebuild the wall. The people who were taking advantage of the Israelites weren’t too happy with Nehemiah. They tried to get him to stop, but when he wouldn’t, they threatened him, then they blackmailed him. But he stayed true to what he felt God had called him to do and wouldn’t give up.

So I sent messengers to them, saying, “I am doing a great work and I cannot come down. Why should the work stop while I leave it and come down to you?” (Nehemiah 6:3 NASB)

Even though there were threats of telling King Artaxerxes that he was attempting to become a powerful ruler and getting him arrested and thrown in prison, Nehemiah refused to give up. One of his friends even tried to get him to give up and seek refuge in the temple where he couldn’t be arrested, but he saw through that plot as trickery.

Nehemiah knew what he had to do and he knew that the only way to get the job done was to stick to his plan. This was his one thing. It was his one chance to make a major impact on the lives of those in Jerusalem and restore their sense of pride as a people and a city. Fast forward a bit and Nehemiah gets the wall built and isn’t arrested.

Andy shared that Nehemiah 6:3 has become a life verse for him. Whenever he is tempted to do something that will distract him from his goals or his beliefs, he is reminded of that verse. It’s a powerful statement and question: “I’ve got something that’s more important than what you want me to do. Why should I stop doing it?”

“There are seasons in life that if you miss them you can’t go back and recapture them.” -Andy Stanley

If you’ve been following my blog you know that I have seven goals for this year as part my #FinishYear list. But of that list, if I don’t complete all seven of them, one of them is more important to me than all the others. My 7th goal is to be debt free this year and right now that goal will be accomplished in October or November. As Andy said tonight: “Debt makes you ugly. If you’re single, get out of debt as fast as you can so you don’t drag a third ‘person’ into a long-term relationship.”

That’s my one thing. What is your one thing? Do you have a list of goals for this year, but out of all those goals, one is far more important to you than all the others?

Sunday Summary: Week 1 of FinishYear

Each Sunday I’ll post a summary of my #FinishYear goals by the week and the month. This works out really easily this year with this being a post every Sunday afternoon.

1. Complete 500 miles by running/walking/elliptical this year.

I completed a grand total of 3.3 miles this week. Most of that was done on an elliptical and it takes an unrealistic amount of time to cover distance. I think I’ll be switching to the treadmill more during the week to get my mileage up a bit easier until I’m able to start running again. Hoping I can start adding running back in a couple times a week by the end of this month. That will be about 7 weeks since the pain in my shin began, so hopefully I’ll be healed by then. If you use RunKeeper, let’s be on each others StreetTeam! You can follow my progress there or on Twitter.

2. Cut body fat to under 20%.

I won’t post regularly on this one since I have to work on my exercise routine and diet before I can really start on this one. I’ll update quarterly on this one, so I’ll be leaving it off the rest of the posts until April. Right now I’m around 24-25% which is higher than it should be. I’ve lost about 17 lbs in the last year, but only dropped about 2% body fat, so I need to work on some things.

3. Complete two more 5ks, my first 10k, and my first half marathon this year.

Again, these are all on hold until my shin is healed. Hopefully I’ll be able to schedule a 5k in March or April.

4. Read 15 books.

I just completed Dave Ramsey’s “EntreLeadership” book (Amazon affiliate link). I highly recommend this for everyone. I’ll blog about a few things from this book in the coming weeks. I’m starting “The Hunger Games” next. This will be all three books in the series.

5. Hand-write all of Proverbs.

I’ve done this every day this year so far and have posted a picture on Instagram (username: chrisrouse) every day. I’m tweeting the picture every day in January, but I’m also uploading them to Flickr. I’m into Proverbs 3 already. This goal probably won’t take long, but it’s definitely a cool way to work through the book of a Bible.

6. Tithe regulary

I got paid this week and my tithe check is ready to go with me to church tonight.

7. Become debt free.

I have just under $9500 left to pay off this year. I’ll be paying off the rest of my smallest loan in two weeks which leaves me with two loans after that.

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